How do I know God’s will? This is one of the four or five questions most frequently asked by the youth today. The question presents no small struggle for many youth. They talk about it, they worry about it, even lose sleep over it.
This is largely because the years of adolescent and adulthood are the period during which most people face the three greatest decisions of life; “their salvation decision, their marriage decision, and their life’s work decision. (Mission, Mate and Master).
WHAT IS GOD’S WILL.
For a better understanding of the term God’s will, let’s look at the meaning of the word “Will”
A will is One’s intention or decision; someone’s orders or commands.
Intend, Purpose, Decree or something that is ordained.
From the above definition, we can easily conclude that God’s will is the purpose of God for someone. It is what God has ordained for you, His decree for your life.
God is our maker. He is the potter and we are the clay. Whatever the Potter mold with the clay, there is a purpose for it which is determined by the potter.
As our creator, He did not create us just for creating sake, He has a purpose for everyone of us.
God said to Jeremiah that “before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained the a prophet unto the nations. Jeremiah”. 1:5.
In the scripture above it is clearly stated that Jeremiah has been ordained a prophet before his birth, and that was his purpose in life which is the will of God concerning him.
The will of God concerning everyone is what God has decree and ordained even before he or she is born into this sinful world.
“A Christian is one who has renounce his own will and submit to the will of God in all that he does. The life of Jesus Christ on earth is an example of perfect submission to the will of God. There is a divine blueprint for each one of God’s people. This plan is suited to our personalities, talents, needs potentialities and environment”. Dr Alban Douglas.
According to Adraian Rogers, many people do not realize God has a will for their lives.
Searching for God’s will is not ours because God’s will is not lost, it is the duty of God to reveal it conditioned on your obedience to his word.
BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE OF GOD’S WILL.
God’s will can be divided into two distinct categories: His universal will which applies to everyone, and His specific will, which applies to an individual. Most people seem earnestly concerned with the later and more or less indifferent about the former. But the two while distinct are intertwined.
GOD’S UNIVERSAL WILL
God’s universal will is clear and indisputable because it is spelled out in God’s word.
Below are some of the universal will of God as they’re been spread out in the Bible:
1. Prayer. In First Thessalonians. 5:17, the Bible says “pray without ceasing” here it is seen that God wants us to develop a constant, consistent fellowship with Him in in our prayer. Prayer is a way of communicating with God, and one of the things that enhance good relationship is communication. Communication gap kills relationship.
2. Love. Another aspect of God’s universal will for believers is LOVE. John. 13:34-35 “A new command I give you: that you love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.
3. Personal and group Bible study. God desire that you know more and more of him as He always reveal himself in the scripture. Studying the scriptures help in knowing more and growing our relationship with God and it also makes us to examine ourselves so that we can be in right standing with Him. 2Timothy. 3:16-17.
4. Separation from sin unto holiness. 1.Thes 4:3 “For this is the will of God, even your sanctification”. God is holy and is Hs will that we be like Him.
The main points of God’s will.
1. Salvation. The first aspect of God’s revealed will is for all men and women to be saved, to trust Christ as Saviour and Lord. 1Timothy. 2:3 says “This is good, and pleases God our Saviour, who wants all men to be saved and to come to a knowledge of truth.
2. Submission. God’s will for every nonbeliever who becomes a believer is commitment, the submitting of one’s life one’s future, one’s will to Christ. Romans. 12:1-2 “Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God-this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is- His good, perfect and pleasing will.
3. Obedience to parents. Ephesians. 6:1. God’s will for every believer is that he or she live in obedience to his or her parents. The reason for that is that God sometimes reveals His will to a person through the counsel or example of his or her parents. Example is the choice of Abraham in choosing a wife for his son Isaac. Genesis. 24:1-9.
4. Sexual Purity. 1Thesalonians. 4:3 “For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication” It God’s universal will for every believer be it young or old male or female that you should be sexually pure. This condemn the idea of premarital sex. It is totally forbidding by the Bible.
5. To be filled with Holy Spirit. God wants every believer to be filled with His Spirit. At point of conversion you receive the Holy Spirit, the believer does not need to seek more of the Holy Spirit the Holy Spirit seeks to control more of the believer. God desires to permeate the christian, to control every aspect of his or her life through the Holy Spirit which is already in him or her. “Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is. And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit” Eph. 5:17-18.
6. Proclamation of the Gospel. The go and preach the gospel commandment. Matt. 28:19-20.
GOD’S SPECIFIC WILL.
This is the will of God as it relates to individual believer. Here the will of God for a particular person is different from the other person. This comes in the area of marriage partner, profession, school to attend, place of settlement etc.
It is important to understand that God’s specific will is contingent upon His universal will. For example, a young person who is not obeying God’s universal will is wasting his or her time praying for God’s will regarding whom to marry.
God’s universal will is the foundation upon which His specific will is built. Every building has a foundation, no structure is erected without a foundation. Which means it is not possible to erect a structure without a foundation.
A young person seeking God’s will concerning his or her life (specific) must have built a foundation upon which the specific will of God will be establish. In other word such person must have been in a relationship with God. The stronger or solid the relationship with God, the earlier God reveals to him or her His specific will concerning such person.
Seeking God’s specific will can be done most effectively through the following steps:
1. Scripture. A knowledge of the scripture is foundational in seeking and desire God’s will. It not necessary, for example, for a young Christian to wounder weather God wishes her to marry a non-Christian brother; God’s word is clear on that matter. 2Cor. 6:14-15, “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?” The foundation of God is sure and it can not be changed. God will never change His standard to suit the purpose of man, never. The Bible forbids a christian to marry a non christian. God will not prompt a young man or woman to do anything contrary to HIs word.
2. Prayer. In Matthew. 6:8-10, Jesus instructed His disciples: Do not be like the pagans, for your father knows what you need before you ask him. This, then, is how you should pray: “Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven…..” Jesus sought the will of the the Father through prayer. Likewise, the seeking Christian can seek to discern and conform to God’s will through prayer, as he did in Matthew. 26:39.
3. Godly Counsel. Another step in discerning God’s will is seeking spiritual counsel from mature believers.Counsel helps the believer in a couple of ways; it helps to prevent a purely emotional decision(offering an objective viewpoint), and helps to overcome a lack of experience (offering a mature viewpoint).
4. Circumstance. Sometimes God directs through external circumstances. In Romans. 1:13 Many times Paul had wanted to visit the Christians in Rome but God have prevented him from doing so. ” I do not want you to be unaware, brothers, that I often planned to come to you (but have been prevented from doing so until now), so that I might reap a harvest among you, just as I have among the rest of the gentiles” I have seen where God used a broken courtship to prevent someone from marrying the wrong person. He can also delay you from getting married in other to give you a better husband or wife. Therefore whatever circumstances you find yourself don’t believe God is not hearing your prayer is only preserving you for the best.
It must however be noted that not all circumstances are from God. The fact that it is tough and rough does not always mean that God doesn’t wants it. And the fact that it is smooth and fine does not always mean that God is in it. The fact that a job is lucrative and paying does not mean it is God’s will for you and vise verse. Circumstances must always be balanced with the knowledge of the scripture.
GEORGE MUELLER’S FORMULAR FOR FINDING GOD’S WILL.
1. Surrender your own will. Have no definite choice in the matter. Be absolutely neutral.
2. Seek the Spirit’s will through God’s word.
3. Note providential circumstances.
4. Pray for guidance.
5. Wait patiently on God.
CONDITIONS OF GUIDANCE
1. Trust in the Lord Psa. 37:3, 32:8. Guidance is only for the believers. God’s plan for the unsaved consists of one point – believe and be saved.
2. Delight thyself also in the Lord. Psa. 37:4… be eager willing to know His will and obey.
3. Commit thy way unto the Lord. Psa. 37:5. We must have complete, explicit faith in Him.
4. Rest in the Lord and wait patiently for Him. Psa. 37:7 God promises to guide, but not necessarily to reveal His will the same day you request it.
5. Surrender to the will of God. We must be willing to obey His will. Rom. 12:1,2.
6. Separation from the world and all known sin. Rom. 12:2 “And be not conformed to this world……..
7. Spiritual mindedness. Rom.12:2. …renewing of your mind…” Your mind in tune with Lord, His Spirit, His Book, to hear His small still voice.
CONCLUSION.
God our creator, has a purpose for everyone of us which He wants everyone to accomplished before we bid this planet earth goodbye. Knowing His will concerning our life at all time keeps us moving in the direction of our divine purpose. This purpose and will can only be discovered through an intimate relationship with Him.